Are you likable?

Happy people are likable.

Who are the people we really like, and like to be with?  Most of the time, they are happy people, people who like themselves and others.

Being happy is almost the entire secret of being likable.  Though no person can expect to be liked by everybody, the likeable people have the inside track most of the time.

How do we become happy and thus likable?  We’re continuously told that happiness cannot be found in property, power, and prestige.  It is rooted instead in self-acceptance, in feeling loved and wanted, and in giving genuine service, maybe just in the form of very useful work.

Twelve Step programs are structured to make us happy if we persevere long enough in working the individual steps.  While it may seem contradictory, even people with heavy burdens and personal sorrows can find underlying happiness through service.  A great deal of this also hinges on our belief in a Higher Power and a confidence that we have a place in the universal system.

I can be happy today in spite of things that others would consider burdensome and depressing. Happiness really comes from God, and it also serves to attract friends into my life.

– Jamie Alessandrine

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